I had an O.K day. I played and I got into a fight with my friends, so I didn't have a great day. I'm grateful that I had the strength to walk away and not get involved that much. So, a tip that I or you can use when you and your friends get into a fight is to try your best just to not get involved. Or, if what you want to say might make someone upset, just don't say it at all. One of my other tips would be to have a number one go to friend that you know that will not get you into a fight. And if you do end up getting into a fight with that person, then just go independent.
My plan for avoiding fights with friends:
1) Don't whisper
2) Don't let other people whisper to you and a good tip would be if you think that your friend is about to whisper something to you ask them "Is what you are about to say something that would hurt someone else's feelings?" And if the answer is yes or if the person doesn't answer, then it is pretty clear that you should both find something else to do or talk about that is not hurtful.
3) If you see other people whispering, tell them to stop or walk away or tell a teacher or learning coach
4) Try not to get involved in situations that will lead to a fight.
5) Another tip would be if you are too late and are already in a fight, don't say anything. Take a deep breath, relax, and your mind will not be filled with smoke and anger anymore but with a nice relaxation and peace and you can figure out what would be the best thing to do. I, for one, would say - I do not want to get involved if it's going to get me in trouble - and then you just walk away.
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